Thursday, March 21, 2013

The Power of One



The faint cries of a child, like a whisper in the dark.  Left on a doorstep to an orphanage, on the side of the road, in a back alley.  Abandoned and helpless.  Maybe the child has a birth defect, a severe medical condition, or physical deformity.  Or maybe it is a perfect child, only left by its parents for reasons we don’t understand. 

For those of us that live in China, this is a story we are all too familiar with.  And for those who live elsewhere, perhaps it is one that we have read about time after time.  Either way, it is a true story.  A story far too common in a country whose orphan population is growing exponentially year after year.  Currently publicly available estimates show that there are currently over 1 million children living in orphanages in China.  The harsh reality may be that the number is substantially higher as records are not kept on many of the orphaned children.  

Upon moving to China, I was bombarded by organizations all focused on helping these children, most of which provide foster care, food, medical care, or just plain love and attention for these lost children.  All of these organizations do incredible things and make a tremendous difference in the lives of so many. And like most of us living here, I felt a call to help, but struggled for months trying to find the organization that I fit best with.  Within minutes of meeting the Starfish Charitable Foundation (http://www.starfishtrust.org.hk), I knew I had found the right one.

The Starfish mission is simple.  To help children with medical needs receive the medical treatment they need to restore them to full health, be it physically, emotionally, or spiritually.  Starfish strives towards the goal of helping these children, not only lifting up their hands or feet again, but most importantly, we hope they can lift up their hearts and heads bravely to face tomorrow.  By using our greatest gift, God’s love, we pray they would be filled with His love and hope, completely healed and changed!

On May 18th, I will run the Beijing Great Wall Half Marathon.  It is something that I have wanted to do since learning about it, something I feel a need to do before we leave China to mark my time here.  As I started my training, I felt that the experience deserved to be something more than just a run on the historical landmark.  You see, Starfish is a firm believer in the Power of One – No matter who you are, you can make a difference as long as you are willing.  This was my chance to bring greater awareness to those that have changed me, these beautiful children and their stories and the volunteers that so tirelessly and diligently give their time and their love in hopes that they too can make a lasting impact.  

Starfish has just opened a Feeding Home here in Shanghai.  Our Feeding Home provides these children a nurturing environment, giving them warm clothes, nourishment, and love until they are healthy enough for their Starfish-sponsored corrective surgery.  We currently have 4 babies between 5-7 months old living there.  My goal for this race is to raise RMB 18,000 (USD$2,900) to provide for one of these beautiful children for the next year until they are fit for surgery.  The simple day-to-day necessities we all take for granted, diapers, milk powder, and any special supplies that they may need to feed properly with their condition.  

Doug and I were lucky enough to meet a very special family 4 years ago that taught us a life lesson, Sempre Avanti, Always Forward.  And that is what this is about.  To help a child leave the beginnings of their life behind them and move forward with the blessings they have been given.  Every child deserves to be hugged, rocked, and sang to.  To have a full belly, a clean diaper, and a warm place to sleep.   To have someone stare adoringly into their eyes and tell them how beautiful they are.  To feel loved.
The Power of One.

Your donation, whether big or small, will impact, transform and restore young lives forever. So please donate and make a difference today!
  1. By Check
    Please make check payable to “Starfish Charitable Foundation Limited” and send it to:
    Starfish Charitable Foundation Limited
    c/o Valerie Lohse
    PO Box 1381
    Corning, NY 14845
  2. By Direct Debit
    Direct debit to our account at:
    Hong Kong and Shanghai Banking Corporation Limited, Hong Kong
    Beneficiary: Starfish Charitable Foundation Ltd.
    Bank Account No: 004-652-050493-838
    Swift Code: HSBCHKHHHKH

  3. By Cash (in China)
    Contact Valerie Lohse at:
    hokieval@gmail.com
    186.1650.7232
We will issue official receipts for all donations.

Monday, March 11, 2013

Nouveau Rich

This is what a half a million dollars looks like.  
 
Our neighbor....a twenty-something long-haired Chinese guy who rides the clutch like you wouldn't believe when he takes the Lamborghini for a spin.  
 
No baseball in the yard, that's for sure.  Can you imagine??
 
Our kids are going to be SO jaded...

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

All Smiles All the Time

3 Months Old
4 Months Old
5 Months Old

South of the Equator

The Lohses headed to the southern hemisphere to escape Chinese New Year this year.  We had a fabulous time in Australia...so much so that we thought about changing our names and not coming back.  The fabulous food, scenery, pristine air, and anonymity were just what we needed before we embarked upon our third year in China.

And in case you were wondering, Eric took care of communicating with the Aussies for us.  He officially speaks 4 languages now, American, Chinese, British, and Australian.  ;O)

Click to see more pictures from our trip

Blessings

Carter was welcomed into the Catholic church and the Christian faith this past January.  We have been lucky, especially in China, to find a church family that welcomes us and we enjoy being a part of.  We were lucky to have Dena and Matty in town for Carter's baptism, but so missed having the other important people in Carter's Christian family here.
  






Girls Weekend

I have always wanted to go to Harbin, a second-tier city in the far northeast corner of China.  This "Ice City" is known for its Russian influence and its annual Snow and Ice Festival (one of four in the entire world) held each year.  But it is bitterly cold, with highs during the festival of less than 0 degrees Fahrenheit.  So instead of hauling the family and all of our cold gear up to Harbin, a group of us ladies decided to do a short one-night trip to check this China must-see off the list.


It was worth the trip, but was indeed close to the coldest weather I have ever been in, with the nighttime temps around -15F.  And we were lucky enough to also experience some of the worst pollution on record, with the levels on Saturday exceeding what could be even be measured. But it only takes a few good friends and a few bottles of beer to make it a memorable one.  



Kristin through a single ice block
Walking across the frozen Songhua River
The Great Wall made out of Snow
More snow sculptures

The Ladies