I am one proud momma!
Thursday, May 9, 2013
Tuesday, May 7, 2013
Pia's 4!!!
It was all about pink, chocolate and butterflies this year for Pia's birthday. Sophia had her first official birthday party with friends, games, crafts, and 2 exhausted parents. Even though the kids declared my butterfly sandwiches "disgusting", I would declare it a success. The smiles make it all worthwhile.
Happy Birthday Pretty Lady!
Monday, April 15, 2013
I Hate My Phone
I hate my phone.
Well, I shouldn’t say hate. I
always tell my kids that hate is a strong word and you shouldn’t use it. But I really do hate my phone.
Once again this morning I woke up to a slew of “Breaking
News” messages, this time about my beloved city and that someone decided to
ruin one of its most special days. I won’t
even begin to ask the long list of unanswerable questions. Instead, I’ll just sit here with my coffee,
tears in my eyes, and watch the sun come up thousands of miles away. This world just sucks.
I have been meaning to write a blog post about pollution in
China, the thousands upon thousands of dead, diseased pigs floating down the
river here in Shanghai, and now the bird flu.
They too are all incredibly scary things and contribute to my short and long
term stress around the health my family.
Oh and don’t forget our friend in North Korea. But as long as Dennis Rodman is in charge of
US/N. Korean relations, we should all be fine, right?
You see, my phone manages all communication between these
world concerns and me. It’s gotten so
bad now that every time my phone lights up I race to see what has happened
now. Korea’s declared war? Bird flu is now human to human? Or God forbid something as tragic as these
explosions in Boston or the shootings in Newtown. To be completely honest, I am relieved when I
see that the US only created 100,000 new jobs last month or that Margaret
Thatcher has died (God rest her soul).
How awful is that?
So, what’s a girl to do?
Turn off the world and go along with the ignorance is bliss camp? I really wish I could, but this girl just isn’t
made that way. Instead, I see lots of coffee and
a box of hair dye in my future.
I hate my phone.
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
Yunnan
Another Chinese holiday, another adventure. This time we decided to stay in China and venture to the southwest corner of the country to the Yunnan province. The Yunnan province boarders Tibet, so the more west you go, the more you experience the Tibetan culture. Given how difficult it is to get to Tibet and how far it is, we decided this would have to do for now. And wow...what a great trip. So different than anything we have experienced thus far in China.
Yunnan is made up of many minority populations and their different religions. As a result, the culture is much different than what we have experienced in the big cities. Shangri-la (or Zhongdian prior to the government renaming it Shangri-la 10 years ago), had a population of only 50,000! A big difference from Shanghai's 30 million! Both Lijiang and Shangri-la (and the 5 hour drive in between) were mostly farming communities, still using mostly animals and manual labor vs. tractors and heavy farm equipment. It was like stepping back in time 50 years. And the landscape is so different, being in the middle of some magnificent and tall mountains. It was beautiful and fascinating. Even the kids thought so (or maybe that was just the lack of oxygen due to the altitude!)
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Thursday, March 21, 2013
The Power of One
The faint cries of a child, like a whisper in the dark. Left on a doorstep to an orphanage, on the
side of the road, in a back alley. Abandoned
and helpless. Maybe the child has a
birth defect, a severe medical condition, or physical deformity. Or maybe it is a perfect child, only left by
its parents for reasons we don’t understand.
For those of us that live in China, this is a story we are
all too familiar with. And for those who
live elsewhere, perhaps it is one that we have read about time after time. Either way, it is a true story. A story far too common in a country whose
orphan population is growing exponentially year after year. Currently publicly available estimates show
that there are currently over 1 million children living in orphanages in China. The harsh reality may be that the number is
substantially higher as records are not kept on many of the orphaned
children.
Upon moving to China, I was bombarded by organizations all
focused on helping these children, most of which provide foster care, food,
medical care, or just plain love and attention for these lost children. All of these organizations do incredible
things and make a tremendous difference in the lives of so many. And like most
of us living here, I felt a call to help, but struggled for months trying to
find the organization that I fit best with.
Within minutes of meeting the Starfish Charitable Foundation (http://www.starfishtrust.org.hk), I
knew I had found the right one.
The Starfish mission is simple. To help children with medical needs receive
the medical treatment they need to restore them to full health, be it
physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
Starfish strives towards the goal of helping these children, not only
lifting up their hands or feet again, but most importantly, we hope they can
lift up their hearts and heads bravely to face tomorrow. By using our greatest gift, God’s love, we
pray they would be filled with His love and hope, completely healed and
changed!
On May 18th, I will run the Beijing Great Wall
Half Marathon. It is something that I
have wanted to do since learning about it, something I feel a need to do before
we leave China to mark my time here. As
I started my training, I felt that the experience deserved to be something more
than just a run on the historical landmark.
You see, Starfish is a firm believer in the Power of One – No matter who you are, you can make a difference as long as you are willing. This was my chance to bring greater awareness
to those that have changed me, these beautiful children and their stories and the
volunteers that so tirelessly and diligently give their time and their love in
hopes that they too can make a lasting impact.
Starfish has just opened a Feeding Home here in
Shanghai. Our Feeding Home provides
these children a nurturing environment, giving them warm clothes, nourishment,
and love until they are healthy enough for their Starfish-sponsored corrective
surgery. We currently have 4 babies between
5-7 months old living there. My goal for this race is to raise RMB 18,000
(USD$2,900) to provide for one of these beautiful children for the next
year until they are fit for surgery. The
simple day-to-day necessities we all take for granted, diapers, milk powder,
and any special supplies that they may need to feed properly with their
condition.
Doug and I were lucky enough to meet a very special family 4
years ago that taught us a life lesson, Sempre
Avanti, Always Forward. And that is
what this is about. To help a child
leave the beginnings of their life behind them and move forward with the blessings
they have been given. Every child
deserves to be hugged, rocked, and sang to.
To have a full belly, a clean diaper, and a warm place to sleep. To
have someone stare adoringly into their eyes and tell them how beautiful they
are. To feel loved.
The Power of One.
Your donation, whether big or small, will impact, transform
and restore young lives forever. So please donate and make a difference today!
- By Check
Please make check payable to “Starfish Charitable Foundation Limited” and send it to:
Starfish Charitable Foundation Limited
c/o Valerie Lohse
PO Box 1381
Corning, NY 14845 - By
Direct Debit
Direct debit to our account at:
Hong Kong and Shanghai Banking Corporation Limited, Hong Kong
Beneficiary: Starfish Charitable Foundation Ltd.
Bank Account No: 004-652-050493-838
Swift Code: HSBCHKHHHKH
- By Cash
(in China)
Contact Valerie Lohse at: hokieval@gmail.com
186.1650.7232
We will issue official receipts for all donations.
Monday, March 11, 2013
Nouveau Rich
This is what a half a million dollars looks like.
Our neighbor....a twenty-something long-haired Chinese guy who rides the clutch like you wouldn't believe when he takes the Lamborghini for a spin.
No baseball in the yard, that's for sure. Can you imagine??
Our kids are going to be SO jaded...
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