Saturday, January 28, 2012

Unexpected Goodbyes



When you decide to get a dog, you consider a number of things.  What temperament best fits your family, how big they will grow, how easily they can be trained, how good they are with children, and face it, how cute you think they are.  And when you bring home that perfect little puppy, you can’t help but be consumed by the little bundle of fur, the pouting eyes, the puppy breath, the softness of their ears, and their pure love for life as they slip and slide down the hallway, still not completely in control of their limbs.  They become your everything and you never, ever look back.  

But what you forget to consider, what you knew but quickly dismissed, is that their lives, their life with you, is short.  Too short.  Incredibly short. 

We only got 7 short years with our girly-girl.  But what she gave us in those 7 years is astounding.  She loved us unconditionally.  She loved our children unconditionally (even though with each of their births she got a little lower on the totem pole).   She made us laugh every time she tucked her butt and ran through the snow.  She made us furious every time she snuck a piece of who knows what off the ground and ate it.  She snuggled into bed with us as we slept in our freezer of a bedroom in Charlestown.  She loved her new family after we moved to China.  And she smiled that Pokey smile until the very end.
She wasn’t just our dog, she was our family.  
 And she will always be our one and only girly-girl.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Xi'an - Our new favorite place in China

Click here to see more pictures from our trip!
Last weekend we took a quick trip with the Lohses up to Xi'an to see the famous terracotta warriors (bingmayong).  Xi'an is northwest from Shanghai, between here and Beijing.  We hired a tour guide for the weekend, which turned out to be a great investment.  Raphael quickly made friends with the kids with his gifts of chocolate and muslin sweet cakes.  He took us to incredible local restaurants, where we ate the best food we have had in China thus far.  And of course he took us around the city to see the city walls, temples, and the famous terracotta warriors.

The warriors are amazing.  They literally take your breath away when you first see them.  To think that they built this tomb over 2000 years ago with these life size, individually unique warriors was amazing.  But when we learned that they have only unearthed about 5% of the actual tomb, we were just in awe.  An emperor with a vision, no doubt.

This small city in China, with only 11 million people, was so different from Shanghai and other places we have been.  It felt small and real.  It might have been because we were some of the only tourists there, as opposed to the peak months where there are over 80,000 visitors a day.  Either way, we had a blast exploring the Muslim quarter, trying the street food (only the safe stuff of course) and shopping in the back alleys.  And because it was the weekend before Chinese New Year, the whole city was decorated with red lanterns and dragons.  It truly was beautiful.
A highlight of our time in China, no doubt.  My vote to add this back on to the list of the 7 wonders of the world!!

Now it's back to the drawing board planning our next adventure...



Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Off Again

 
 
The Lohses have been in town for the last month and we have spent a great deal of the time traveling around Asia.  After spending Christmas day celebrating, we headed off for Siem Reap, Cambodia and then went to Ho Chi Mihn City (Saigon).

Angkor Wat
Cambodia was simply amazing, one of my top 5 places.  We spent 4 days there and toured the famous temples, spent a day on ATVs, and really tried to get to know the people and local culture.  It was truly fantastic.  Click on the picture above to see more pictures from our trip.

We then headed next store to Vietnam, where Darwin returned to Saigon after his first visit during the war 42 years ago.  We spent 3 days touring the city, the museums, and went to the tunnels used by the North Vietnamese during the American/Vietnam war.  We saw saw some very graphic pictures, read some very unfair recollections of the war, but also spent some time reflecting on our history as a country. I can only imagine how impactful the experience was for a returning veteran.  Click on the picture above to see more pictures from our trip.

Overall, it was a very memorable vacation and another successful Asian adventure for the Lohses!  

Up next...Xi'an and the Terracotta Warriors!